Kelly Rowland, seen here at the Black Women in Music Dinner on June 12, 2026 in Los Angeles, California, has long had to manage her eczema. (Photo by Michael Tullberg/Getty Images)
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Grammy-winning singer-songwriter, actress and Destiny’s Child alum Kelly Rowland scored a hit with David Guetta on “When Love Takes Over” in 2010. But what happens when eczema takes over? Well, that might be too “Dilemna,” to borrow the name of another Rowland hit in 2002 with Nelly.
How Rowland was diagnosed with eczema
Rowland recently opened up to me about her eczema diagnosis and the flare-ups that have occurred at rather inopportune times — if you consider, say, an inopportune moment during a live performance on stage. “My diagnosis came when I had my first son Titan,” Rowland recalls. “I had all these different breakouts, which I thought were rashes at the time. So even though I was scratching, I was thinking in my head that I was spreading whatever rash was all over my body.” The identity of the rash was unclear at the time. In other words, the rash was kind of “say my name, say my name” without Rowland knowing what it was.
But then Rowland got some “motivation” to make a hasty judgment. “I remember going in for a facial after having my son and I just asked my esthetician, Shani Darden, about it,” Rowland explained. Darden pointed out that Rowland had eczema and it “literally sent me to the skin.” That was about 11 years ago.
It wasn’t until Rowland went to a dermatologist where she was officially diagnosed with eczema, “I realized I’ve always suffered from it,” Rowland said. He realized that he had suffered rashes on his legs, elbows, neck, back, eyes, nose and other places. He also realized that “everyone at home in Atlanta, as far as I can remember, had eczema.” This helped her understand the range that eczema can have and that “It’s different for everyone.”
And as I have written before Forbeseach can be many bodies. The National Eczema Association.estimated that eczema affects anywhere from 10 percent to 20 percent of all children and 2 percent to 10 percent of all adults worldwide,
Rowland said “Eczema has a mind of its own”
Rowland also commented that “eczema has a mind of its own. It just does what it wants.” She described how the flare-ups were unpredictable, “You don’t know what your day is going to be like. You don’t know what food is going to trigger it. You don’t know what stress is going to trigger it. You learn how to manage it.”
He added, “It’s really inappropriate when it happens sometimes.” Rowland went on to describe an eye-opening situation when “I had a flare-up, and it was in the middle of my eye and the pickup artist covered it up.” Rowland continued: “I remember talking to someone afterwards and saying, ‘I wonder, are they looking me in the eye?’ Rowland spoke of how it “affects your confidence” and “messes you up”.
Rowland heard a lot of misinformation and misinformation about eczema
“When I first learned about eczema 11 years ago, I was given something topical that would help in the meantime,” Rowland recalls. But since it was clear she had eczema, she might as well have sung “Lay It on Me” because she found it. “So many people had opinions. And I kind of heard everything. It was just so much information.”
Much of this information was also wrong. For example, here’s a shocker, there is a ton of misinformation and disinformation out there on TikTok, Instagram, Facebook, X, Poop Map, or any other social media platform you may frequent. Each of these platforms has many influencers pushing different opinions and supposed solutions. And it may not be clear what the economic or political agendas behind each of these might be.
Rowland stressed the importance of seeing real doctors and advocating for yourself
Kelly Rowland has emphasized the importance of being aware of your surroundings and your body and supporting yourself. (Photo by Paras Griffin/WireImage)
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That’s why Rowland stressed, “It’s important to ask your doctor.” He went on to say, “I think that’s where we sometimes try to self-diagnose, and I didn’t go to school for that.” Of course, you shouldn’t ask just any doctor. As in any field or profession, the medical profession has a very wide range of physicians who vary greatly in quality, training, experience, judgment, insight and personality. When you want to record an album, you’d probably prefer a former member of Destiny’s Child over someone who was anyone else’s child. Likewise, you need to take your time to choose the right doctor.
In addition, Rowland urged people to “advocate for themselves and ask the questions the same way I did and be able to get information back. That definitely creates a situation where you gain more knowledge about whether it’s something you should use or something you should remove from your diet or your space or whatever it might be.” He added: “I think it’s really being aware of your environment and being aware of your body.”
In addition, eczema can be more than just a skin problem. And a given medical issue may require the cooperation of specialists. “I think an allergist is actually a game-changer,” Rowland urged, explaining how allergy testing has helped identify potential triggers not only for her flare-ups but also for her other son, Noah, who has also been diagnosed with eczema.
Rowland has made lifestyle changes to manage her eczema
After giving it a good try, Rowland made some lifestyle changes. You can say tomato, but Rowland doesn’t tell them. He has also distanced himself from alcohol.
He also emphasized the importance of managing stress, another possible cause. She called stress “inevitable,” but said she does “a lot more, like calm breathing,” to manage stress.
As for Noah’s eczema arc, “when Noah just goes outside, his skin changes and he starts to scratch, especially when he’s very old, I call it the thick season. where the air is covered in all kinds of stuff,” Rowland said. “He can walk outside and immediately start sneezing and itching and everything. We have to take off his shirt or his clothes, give him a bath, wash his face and everything where we get everything in the air out of him and then you get relief.”
Rowland also takes medication for eczema
Rowland also uses medication to manage eczema. I’ve already covered that Forbes The arsenal of things you can do against eczema, ranging from keeping your skin moisturized to antihistamines and anti-inflammatory medications, topical and oral steroids to immunosuppressants to newer biologics made up of antibodies that can block various proteins involved in causing inflammation in eczema. Rowland was taking one of these biologics—Ebglyss—and in collaboration with the drug manufacturers—Lilly—to raise awareness about eczema and the treatments available.
Rowland starred in a movie called “Relationship Goals” that came out last Valentine’s Day on Amazon Prime where she co-starred with Clifford “Method Man” Smith. In it, Rowland’s character had some struggles until she received life-changing dating advice. Well, the same thing happened with her relationship with eczema. The right medical advice finally made her jump, jump in the right direction.



